Went on a big trip to Lake Tahoe this weekend with 9 other friends. There wasn’t any big “thing” that we were celebrating, just all 10 of us have our own lives and we don’t get to spend time together as “just guys”, so it was a trip to re-wind the clock about 7-10 years.
I have two main observations : 1) I take back ever defending AT&T because I totally understand why anyone West of the Rockies hates the services. 2) Talk big all you want to, but we aren’t in college anymore.
So, quick note on AT&T. How about throwing up another tower or 10 on the West Coast? I couldn’t make calls or send text messages the entire weekend. It wasn’t just my phone because the other guys that have AT&T had the same issues. In fact, I did a bit of a ping test when I had service. You know what tower my cell phone was using for service? A tower in Seattle, WA. I was in Lake Tahoe, 100 miles from Sacramento, 45 miles from Reno, but the service tower was IN SEATTLE. That’s bad planning.
Now, the main point, we’re not young guys anymore. I knew that, but it takes a weekend like this for me to be reminded. We all had a lot of fun this weekend, so it isn’t a complaint at all. It was great being with the guys again and cramming 10 of us in a hotel room literally having fart competitions and making a hotel run out of towels. It was a bit sad when I realized that everyone was down and out by midnight. You know what, “sad” is totally the wrong word. It’s eye opening.
Gone are the days where we could go to the bars till 2 am, come home and after-party till 4 or 5. Gone are the days where you talk about all your big plans. Gone are the days where you wonder if you’ll meet your future wife or the next morning’s mistake that night.
Now, I’m not saying that I miss those things, but the last time the 10 of us were together like this, no one was married, no one had kids, everyone was in school and weighed about 25 pounds less. When you all get together again, it’s a little funny that a few of us that didn’t ski still spent the day drinking, but instead of “partying”, we were talking about how much fun it’ll be to take our wives up here, 1 guy was most concerned about finding the right gift for his daughter, and 1 guy kept saying that he can’t wait to bring his stepson up here because it would crack him up to see his stepson lose his shit when he saw the snow. See? Not bad, just different. Keep in mind, we had these conversations at the same time one guy stole another guy’s camera and took close up pictures of his ball bag…so, maybe the more things change, the more they stay the same.
When we re-joined as a group, it was to eat dinner. Sure, the plan was to go to the bar and drink, but inevitably, you’d start seeing yawns, which led to more yawns, which led to people dropping off, and then, by midnight, everyone was back in the room and either already asleep or sitting on the balcony.
I’m not saying that I miss partying, or that I wish we could turn the clock back. What I am saying is that it doesn’t dawn on you how much time passes and how much you have grown as a person in your own life until you put yourself back in a position that you used to be. It isn’t a bad thing to grow up, it is a bad thing to wish you were still young, or act like you’re still young. If you spend the entire time “wishing” you were still a kid, or acting like you are still a 22 year old, then I think it says something about how you aren’t happy with how things are today.
This weekend was awesome. I say that with no sarcasm or exception. It was fun, and it was a blast to hang out with the guys again. The fact that I was happiest when I walked into my house and saw my wife and dog tells me that I’ve got the life I dreamt about as a kid.
See? I told you asses that the “I’m happy” posts aren’t funny and make me sound like a haughty jackass. Oh, and snow douches are lake douches on ice.